I Give Thanks for You

Last evening, I had a wonderful time at Barnes and Noble in Fort Wayne, Indiana with my favorite author, Richard Paul Evans. If you are a writer, speaker, friend, family member or spouse, his message is clear: Be Honest. He spoke for about thirty-five minutes, and then signed his newest book, Mistletoe Inn. Taking time to ask about my back surgery, my brace and walker were clear giveaways, he shared that he too has had back issues that required surgery.

As a writer and psychologist I know his openness is what sells his books and he create millions of friends/readers with his friendly manner. If you are struggling with co-workers, family or friends due to honesty, remember six things:

• 1.    Be honest with people, in down-to-earth but not vulnerable ways. Don’t seek sympathy … seek commonality and empathy toward others.
• 2.    Don’t open up about things in your life that can later be used as ammunition against you. Share how God has helped you rise above your shortcomings and limitations.
• 3.    Don’t use an “Ain’t it awful” attitude, but an “I am blessed,” triumphant attitude.
• 4.    We are never triumphant over others, but triumphant over our own illnesses, injuries and failings.
• 5.   We’re never triumphant over others, but over our own stumbling blocks, because we know too well we are not perfect.
• 6.   Only God is perfect.

If you have a chance to hear someone speaks who inspires you, take the time out of your busy life to listen. This is the month for giving thanks. Don’t waste an opportunity to share with others all those people, events and things in your life that are a blessing to you. Your family and children will never really know you unless you tell them what brings you joy and challenge.

I give thanks for all those who read my blog. You are a blessing to me and I ask for blessings for you as well.

News at Eleven - A Novel, Goodreads Giveaway

Great start everyone! Many of you have already signed up to try to win one of the ten copies of News of Eleven – A Novel. You will love it.

During my rehab following my back surgery, it happened to be CNA week. I gave a copy of News at Eleven – A Novel to each of the CNAs in appreciation for their wonderful care during the six weeks I was there. Several asked if there would be other books in the series, so … yes there will be!

It started as a novella for Glo Magazine, serialized in Jan – April 2015. The first couple of chapters in the novel are that novella. The remaining chapters are the-rest-of-the-story.

Please be patient. I am currently writing the third in the Length of Days trilogy. I will have the second News at Eleven out next year. Again, thank you for your interest in my novel. Good Luck!

Author Fair - Allen County Public Library 2015

See you at the Allen County Public Library at the Author Fair. I will be on Panel #2 - "Write On! Steps to Fabulous Fiction." 

Life is fun! Are you enjoying life? I'm not saying life is easy. Suck it up, Buttercup. I'm still recovering from spine surgery: complete with back brace, physical therapy, walker, cane, and the fact it takes all morning and all my energy to take a shower, wash my hair and dry it. But, I am so blessed and I take time to notice each blessing. If you are waiting for a perfect day to begin being happy, you are cheating yourself out of all those wonderful moments that make up a giving life. Oh, you just want to receive? Then you will never be happy. Happiness can never be a goal. It is the byproduct of the way we live our lives. Begin living today.

Freedom Re-born

Freedom Re-born – the theme for 2016. We have an opportunity to re-affirm the precious values of United States in 2016. The Age of Silence is already upon us. Lord God, give us the courage to go beyond the forbidden borders and restraints forcefully placed around us, so that we may bring in a Re-birth of Freedom. We will not deny that we are a unique country. Freedom gleams brightly, so that we may press on toward the … prize … before us: Freedom … a Holy concept, a grace-filled word. Be counted in 2016. Length of Days — Freedom Re-Born, the third and final novel in the Length of Days Trilogy, will be available beginning in 2016. The first two, Length of Days — The Age of Silence and Length of Days — Beyond the Valley of the Keepers, all by Doris Gaines Rapp, are available now on Amazon.com.

Seize the Moment! Jane Pauley and Me

I didn't think for a second! I grabbed up two of my newest novels, News at Eleven - A Novel, and hurried to give one to the keynote speaker, Jane Pauley, and one to Melissa Long, the local Fort Wayne newscaster who read the novel and wrote an endorsement for the back cover.

I'm glad I didn't waste any time! There I was, in a wheelchair awaiting my back surgery on May 12 and wearing a newly fitted, bulky, thick back brace that makes me look like I have gained fifty pounds! The chance was in front of me, a few feet away. There was no way I was going to miss out on meeting such wonderful women and pass along my novel, just because I was concerned about my appearance.

All of this took place last Friday, a wonderful day away with 1,400 other women, plus vendors and volunteers, at Tapestry in Fort Wayne, IN. I was there at the Glo table to sign the book I had expanded from the novelette they had invited me to write for Glo Magazine. It was serialized January through April, 2015.

My friends, some opportunities come by so fast we hardly see them passing. Don't let them escape your grasp! Seize the moment and dwell on the blessing of the meeting, not on how you look, what you have on, or how you're stuffed into a brace or have a bad hair day. Opportunities are not about you or me; they are about the blessings along our path and recognizing them before they evaporate into the mist of time. Act now!

(Photo of Jane Pauley and Doris Gaines Rapp from the Journal Gazette, 4/25/15. Event: Tapestry - A Day for You, 4/24/15)

News at Eleven - A Novel is available online at Amazon; at the Bookmark on Anthony in Fort Wayne,  IN; at my book signing Saturday May 2 from 11 am to 1 pm in Huntington, IN at Dorothy's Hallmark; and, for those in the U.S. you can buy a signed copy at Tapestry price and free shipping by posting an I.M. on Facebook at Doris Gaines Rapp - Author Page. Limited number of copies available)

A World of Hurt – Dark-Day Word-Experiences

Writers are always searching for new ways to describe familiar situations. If you’re like me you don’t take the opportunity to jot down new words and expressions when they invade your days.

If you have followed my blogs or Facebook pages, you know I have developed a very painful back—spinal arthritis that, right now, has me nearly immobile. Rather than going through all of this suffering and not permit my writing to benefit from this agonizing time, I have decided to start a list of words and sentences to express my experience. Later, as I am writing another novel, I can pull out this blog post and remember to check my list. I will not give all of my descriptions away, since I will want to use them later as fresh and new material. The post here is to encourage you to use the dark times of life to make more realistic writing later when you are creating something new.

First, I’ll admit, the title of this blog is trite. “A world of hurt” has been around for a while, but hopefully it caught your attention. Trust me, right now, with the third and fourth lumbar vertebrae deteriorated and crumbling more, my whole world does hurt: every cough, sneeze, step or slight movement creates teeth grinding nerve pain. So, please forgive the title and think about the process.

Start a notebook of “descriptors,” either in single words, phrases or sentences. Later, when writing something else, you can use the notes, in part or in whole, to describe a similar but different experience. To show you the type of list of which I speak, I will identify each of the five basic senses and then a word or phrases relative to my current back pain so you can see how to create your own “dark-day word-experience.”

Sight: I knew my face had given away the pain I tried to hide, with uncontrolled grotesque tics every time spiky bones stabbed my nerves, when people looked at me with pained empathy.

Sound: I wanted to keep my pain to myself, but somewhere deep inside me, sharp agonizing screams would escape like trapped broken prisoners, with no more than shift of my foot.

Touch: I reached down and scratched my foot; the sensation was “there but not there,” skin or leather, it would have all felt the same.

Taste: A sip of water should have dissolved the tiny pill, but it stuck in my throat and slowly slathered its bitter butter across the back of my tongue.

Smell: Although the pain in my back barely relinquished for a moment allowing me to stand, the aroma of shampoo that filled the shower as it frothed over my head and shoulders, set my senses free for a moment of pleasure.

My practice has always been to try to remember an experience long after it happen, searching for words to give voice to a fictional character. This time, I am creating a list as I experience it and I invite you to consider doing the same.

Have a happy spring!

Doris

Copyright 2015 Doris Gaines Rapp

Support Your Indie Author Day!

“You’re the lady who wrote the books, right?” a man asked while I was deciding between over-ripe or under-ripe bananas at the grocery store.

I recognized him as a man who attends my daughter’s church and had purchased two of my books. He has an American Indian ancestry and asked Katy to bring, Hiawassee – Child of the Meadow and Smoke from Distant Fires to him.

“I loved them,” he said. “My daughter (a Divinity Doctoral Student) cried when she read Hiawassee,” he told me. “I mentor several people,” he added, “and I've asked them to read all of this lady's books.” He asked for all of my titles, so I told him to enter Doris Gaines Rapp on Amazon. My list of books will be there.

What’s the point of all of this? Positive Recognition of their work is a wonderful gift to give an Indie Author. We have no publisher holding our hand through the process or publicist lining up appearances on talk shows. In fact, publishing is currently an “everyone for themselves” industry for authors who do not make millions for them. Mid-list authors have to do their own editing, publicity and marketing even if they have signed with a publishing company. Some really successful authors, once under contract with a publishing house, have decided to self-publish so their work continues to be available for future generations of readers, and not retired after so-many-month on the market.

It is a long and exciting process to get out a book. Let today be the day when you tell an Indie Author, “Thanks. I really enjoyed your book.” Perhaps today could be, “Support Your Indie Author Day!”

Doris

Copyright 2015 Doris Gaines Rapp